Saturday, May 9, 2009

what exactly is true beauty?

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been pondering over this question the last few days. what is beauty in your eyes?

is it physically? or does it have something to do with one's character?
physically as in external or some would say the body.

however even when one judge another through the appearance, there are still different kind of standards or criteria to determine if the target is beautiful or handsome.

Example is some would look at their thighs and some look at breast. while for guys usually the face and the hair is what people goes by. Even if your very muscular and tall and whatever, if your face just turn people off you would still be considered ugly.

I personally believe that beauty has something to do with one's character. Even if your the kind of person that no one will ever notice even if your always present, i will be able to notice you straight away. I believe that this kind of people usually has a very special aura that they exudes which kinda differential them from others.

And most of the time, they are very kind heart-ed. There are exceptions of course. People who changed drastically when they become the center of attention. I have met some of them myself and i realise that they change a lot more as you get to know them and when they interact with large groups of people.

Example of what i have read in the books is that some people when they get inducted in to popular groups like cheerleader clique or something like that, they turn bitchy*(maybe this is not the good word but i can't seem to find another word that really says is as it is).

Finally, the point of this post is that the moment you start changing from the kind heart-ed to the other side* you will realise i start to avoid you or even try not to know you at all. At times i might even try to change you back.

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